When we think about creating good boundaries, most of us have an idea that “strong” boundaries are fixed boundaries - this idea is woven into the mainstream culture, a sense that who we are is mostly static and so things that we like stay that way, things that we don’t like stay that way. But this type of boundary can become stale and flat over time, a rote answer to life instead of a fluid, flexible, living relationship with who we are, what life means to us, where we fit in the world in a given moment.
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What is your intuition advising you to do? Are you in connection with that inner voice regularly? Or do you feel confused as to which direction to take, what to focus your time and resources on?
At times the intuitive side of you may want to move things in life in very simple ways.…
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Solstice this year marks the final conjunction for the year of Saturn and Jupiter.
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Serpents shed their skin and so are also a sign of metamorphosis. If we can use our skills of witnessing/detachment, this time period is actually very potent for transformation of how we give and receive love. We can go through a kind of rebirth within our relationships right now.
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Why has a pandemic emerged at this time? What are the lessons to learn from it? How can we align with the positive aspects of this difficult time?
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Lately I have seen (and perhaps you have too) a lot of threads and posts online where a white person is called out on their ignorance or bias by someone else….and time and time again, I’ve witnessed that rather than accepting the reflection, the person fires back with “are you calling me racist?…
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Developing our intuition is not only a spiritual choice but a practical choice. It marries the divine within us with the entrepreneur, the psychic with the parent, the partner with the sage. The capacities within us to see, hear, feel, and know at a deeper level than what is presented can transform our lives in profound ways.
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This blog is a combination of astrological insights, impressions from talks with other healers who I work with personally, and my own take on the current moment in history, which is certainly in the making.
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Getting intimate with someone involves also getting intimate with their wounds, their fears, insecurities, and triggers. Learning day by day how a new love interest operates and handles life is a learning - and loving - curve. Can you handle what comes up for them gracefully? Do you become irritated or resentful when their issues arise? Can you stay warm towards them even when they aren’t at their best?
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Eclipses momentarily hide the light of the sun, and have been thought of since ancient times as a sort of portal to the deep subconscious, when that which is normally hidden comes to the surface.
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Yet if you hold a deeper intention for yourself in relationship, if you want to create something that is real, alive, and honest with a partner, looking at your expectations and how you use them to hold yourself apart is so important.
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Lately in my practice I’ve been noticing a theme of over-focus on accomplishment. I see this a lot, particularly because my clients tend to be go-getters in their careers, and a lot of self-employed artists, freelancers, & healers. Which is great! And to be celebrated…you all do amazing things in the world. Yet at times, do you become a little bit myopic in that direction?
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